You probably know what it is. You probably know it’s important or have an idea of how it can help. You may even know how important mindfulness is in building our attention in our distracted world (both in general and with ADHD). And even though you know all of this, you don’t have a mindfulness practice even if you want one.
If this is you, the problem isn’t knowledge or the idea of how much mindfulness can help.
The problem is that you don’t value yourself enough to put yourself first.
You may be thinking “No, it’s that I really don’t have time”.
Let me ask you something. Why don’t you have time? What do you spend your time doing?
What does it really mean when you say "I don't have time"?
PAUSE, and really think about it.
As I have reflected on this, I realized that it means I am not prioritizing the thing I think I don't have time for. But the thing is, something is missing for me when I agree to a task or appointment. The thing missing is that I am not consistently asking myself, "Does this align with my priorities, my goals, and my values?". When I look at my calendar, and especially my "to do" list, there is way too much on there that are things that don't fit the bill, that don't align with my priorities, goals, and/or values, things that I have felt obligated to do or do out of habit.
So how do we change that?
The first step is getting super clear on what our goals, priorities, and values are. This takes time - we need to pause and reflect on it. Maybe make some time today to do this.
Then, every time we are adding a task or meeting we ask, "Does this align with my goals, priorities, and values?" This...